Nervousness as a quality of personality

Pickiness as a person's quality is a propensity to whims, to an inappropriate situation of excessive intelligibility, exactingness or excessive scruples.

Nomadliness grows in conditions of a large supply, satiety, it is called "fat crazy". It's amazing how well-trained the finicky learned to use the law of supply and demand in its relationships with people. Pickiness does not live in an environment where the demand is huge, and the supply is meager. For example, in the post-war period a demographic hole forms - the number of men clearly does not match the female demand. Therefore, "there are girls, stand on the sidelines, handkerchiefs in their hands teasing, because for ten girls according to statistics, nine guys." After the war, in some villages for a hundred women there were hardly a dozen men. It is clear that in such circumstances it was inappropriate to make a long, tedious list with a list of the advantages that a long-awaited prince on a white horse should have . The nation needed to survive, it was necessary to forget about finickyness. Any man was in high demand.

Pickiness with huge demand and lack of supply shrinks, becoming not a manifested quality of personality, and gives way to unpretentiousness. People say: "Bread with a bake, a woman with a fagot." When the peasants are not enough, women tend to become unpretentious, that is, they do not raise high demands on the strong sex and are content with what they have. We have to forget about spoiling, excesses, indulgences and indulgences. Female finicky, "reluctantly", makes forced penance - struggles with all his strength.

Unlike always happy, cheerful and happy unpretentiousness, fastidiousness manifests itself through discontent, whim, fastidiousness, swagger and dissatisfaction. Being selfish, she does not care about the reaction of others to her behavior. For example, on a visit, he starts sorting out meals, refusing some dishes, publicly declaring that they do not fit or like him. At the same time, she can disparagingly speak about the culinary abilities of the hostess. In a word, in a compartment with tactlessness, fastidiousness becomes an unwelcome guest in any company. Who is pleased to hear that such food is eaten only by "cattle", "goons" and degraders?

Often fastidiousness is a playful, ostentatious, derivative of snobbery. A person wants to appear in the eyes of others exquisite, eccentric, unordinary and original. By the instrument of realizing one's desire, he chooses an insincere, unkind finicky. In a market where supply exceeds demand, fastidiousness, like a buyer, rules the ball. She shows discretion and exactingness, grumbles and mischief, she is capricious and quaint. And it's not like that, and it's not like that. As they said in Russia: "From the necha do pickles", "The belly is full - eyes will pick up." Nomadliness is the daughter of satiety. The mind always demands ever-increasing happiness. To keep him quietly alive, the person is actively working five senses - hearing, sight, taste, touch and smell. Feelings are the tentacles of the mind. A paradox arises, the more the mind seeks to satisfy its feelings, the more effort it takes to satisfy them again and again. The fact is that feelings have a curious nature - they can not be satisfied, they are always unhappy. The more you serve your feelings, the more they become finicky.

Nomadliness, often, is realized in conjunction with filthiness and perversion. Unable to control one's mind and feelings, a person loses the ability to strictly act. The fastidious mind is chaotic, it always controls the senses. When feelings are chaotic, the mind is also chaotic. Therefore, the rider rushes from whim to whim, from caprice to caprice.

However, fastidiousness can be of considerable benefit for the development of social relations. A fastidious person is full of positive expectations from the realization of his desire. His demand is demanding, demanding and developed. For example, a person has visited Brazil, and knows the taste of real coffee. You can not fool him on chaff. He already knows "okay, eh overseas, or bad. And what kind of miracle in the world "and wants to, and at home was not worse. In the situation of commodity shortages and "blat" of Soviet times, fastidiousness did not take hold: customers resumed their turn without a murmur, prepared "without surrender" in advance, quarreled and asked to give no more than two in one hand. People defended kilometer lines, sometimes not really understanding what they were giving. In a market environment, a fastidious buyer will not only show discontent with a poor-quality product, but will also go to court demanding compensation for material and moral damage. In addition, it will trumpet everyone about their negative experience, undermine the reputation of the firm in the newspaper, dispatch spam and will not stop there. When our market learns to satisfy a finicky client, no competitors are terrible to him.