These 10 results will surprise you if you let the children do dangerous things

As a child, each of us probably did a lot of terrible and dangerous things, so much so that parents do not know about it. But if we have our own offspring, then there are numerous prohibitions and taboos. But what about the valuable skills of research and knowledge of the world?

Do not think that allowing a child to commit dangerous things means showing one's own irresponsibility. The main thing is that children will learn much more valuable lessons while minimizing risks.

Allow children to climb trees

Why do many parents not allow their children to climb trees? Adults are sure that from the tree you can certainly break and break your leg. However, at the same time one's own, perhaps, the most pleasant experience from childhood is forgotten. Accidents happen due to carelessness and negligence.

And the more ascents to the highest tree in the yard, the better the coordination will be developed in the child, the more muscles will be trained. Also, one should not forget about the psychological component of the aspect: the sense of achieving the goal. Climbing the trees, you can learn to balance on the branches, have an idea of the carrying capacity of your own body, and also learn how to calculate the strength and range of jumps.

Allow children to travel in the metro alone

Did you know that Lenor Skenazi was recognized as the "worst mother in the world" for allowing her nine-year-old son to travel the metro alone? She published a book and conducts her own talk show with the same name. Lenore claims that today's children have a wider range of independent actions, they are much smarter than their own parents think about them, and they also know how to identify security boundaries. Well, the level of crime, which scare us the media, is now even lower than in the 70 years of the last century.

However, before you allow a child to travel on public transport independently, you must explain to him the degree of certain risks and make an amendment to the locality in which you live.

Allow children to walk by themselves

Now it is increasingly possible to see how parents constantly drag their one-year-old offspring in their arms. It is easier for the mother to move the toddler from place to place in a special bag on the buckles than to watch the baby, trusting him to take independent steps. Only in this way the baby will not have a sense of risk properly. The fact that the child will fall, there is nothing terrible, it's just part of the educational process.

Allow the child to play with peers

Parents do not allow their children to play with peers, not because they see this as a potential danger. Everything is much simpler here. Simply in the modern saturated children's schedule, entirely consisting of classes, circles and sections, there is not enough elementary time to communicate with other children. However, games with each other are useful for the formation of communication skills and social adaptation of the child.

Allow children to use scissors and a knife

Oh, these modern parents! Prohibit everything, which involves even the slightest risk. Each of us remembers the case when he was a child with experience with a knife, cutting a solid vegetable, and certainly cut himself. But this was the only case! So, since then the lesson is learned and learned. In addition, at the initial stage of developing the inventory, parents always have the opportunity to follow the process.

Allow children to disassemble things

One of the amazing learning opportunities is curiosity. It is curiosity that makes us look at the object inside, disassemble it, and then try to fix it and repair it. By the way, this will never be taught at school. Do not lock the old garage with a key, let the child pick up a screwdriver!

Allow children to mess around in the kitchen

Encourage children, if you notice in them enthusiasm in cooking classes. These skills will be useful to them in the future and will serve well. Perhaps your child will become a great chef? We can understand the parents, after all, after the culinary "masterpieces" of the tomboy, there are mountains of soiled dishes and spilled ingredients. Not all adults agree to tolerate this. However, if you do not succumb to the momentary feeling of preserving the kitchen intact and safe, you will see many undeniable advantages of children's concoction. The child will learn what:

• Increased motivation and self-esteem.
• Willingness to harvest the kitchen through the prism of their own experiments.
• Willingness to try new food, because the child saw and processed all the ingredients that make up the dish.
• Awareness of what food is healthy and useful.
• Awareness of the risks associated with the gas stove and electric heating appliances.
• Rest from the computer and TV.
• Establishing interaction with parents.

Allow children to fail

Be aware that it is only necessary to interfere with the upbringing process when the child is in real danger. All the rest the kid should go through independently. Only experiencing disappointment from their own mistakes, children quickly learn valuable life lessons.

Allow the child to light a fire

In fact, you can expand the rights and opportunities of children if you teach them to do something dangerous in a safe way.

Allow the child to settle in the countryside

Going to the cottage, allow the child to play in the wilderness, amidst the wild pristine nature. Only in this way children get real contact with plants and animals. Take the kid on a fishing trip, go camping with an overnight stay or for rafting. Children will surely thank you.