Strong man - how should it be?

Once a huge aggressive healthy said to the devil's ochkarik: "Yes, I can swallow you with giblets!". To which a strong spirit man calmly replied: "In this case, your stomach will have more brains than in your head." In this anecdote the qualities of a strong personality are revealed in fullness . It does not have to be a physically charged fighter. Of course, "strong IQ muscles do not spoil", but without them you can become a winner from many life's troubles. The first indicator of strength is self-confidence. Not pride, turning into stupid boasting and saber-rattling, namely faith in yourself as a person.

This weak must prove to everyone how strong and brave he is. By humiliating others, this type of trying to rise in their own eyes and the opinion of others, and often tries with a tiny mouthful to prove their case. A strong person is a person "for himself." This does not mean that he is an egoist or egocentric. He just does not live "show-off". He already knows what he is. His strength and vital power radiate self-confidence, and these waves of energy catch the surrounding, even if he is silent. He knows exactly what he wants, and goes to his goal, despite the obstacles. And this is his next quality.

A strong person is not afraid of failure. Naturally, he tries to avoid them - where he can. Sometimes it is peculiar to err. It happens that he suffers a crushing fiasco. But he always knows how to rise after a fall and has the courage to follow. Many people deeply experience their failures: they trail after them along the whole life path. We are afraid to get acquainted with the girl, because the former has roughly refused us. This case is a thorn in the heart, bringing us back to the past, poisoning the present and depriving the future. A person who has an inner fortress is above failures, she follows the goal and is in the future, not obsessed with the past.

A strong man is a rationalist. He does not wear rainbow goggles, but he clearly knows his positive and negative qualities. He attributes all his successes to happily established circumstances, and for his failures he reproaches himself. However, such a person admits his guilt speculatively, not emotionally, that is, he does not begin to engage in self-flagellation, but analyzes the situation, reveals where he made a mistake and draws a lesson for the future. Excessive self-abasement, like tearful self-pity, is a waste of time and energy for such people. They simply go to their goal. He also does not begin to boast loudly of his successes - it is better to praise others than dithyrambs to himself.

A strong person does not compare himself to others. He already knows his inner world too well. He does not admit his thoughts, which can be worse than others - in general, of course, and not for any qualities. On the other, he judges not only by what they want to tell him about himself, or to show it. He respects every person and her inner world, is ready to listen to advice, but the final opinion remains for him. He himself is the blacksmith of his fate. Such a person goes to the goal calmly and confidently, and from unfavorable circumstances and failures, his hands do not drop.

A strong person does not allow himself to be manipulated. He keeps his emotions under control. Such a person always asks himself: Does I do the right thing? What is the basis of my sympathy or antipathy for this or that person? Does not anger lead me? Such people are open to others - they are ready to forgive, they easily forget grievances. Being strong, they tend to support the weak. And this stability, a sense of dignity is tuned to the positive way of others. Toward the strong, they stretch, unconditionally considering it the leader. A born leader, unlike an authoritarian upstart, does not need to identify worship, flattery and humiliation of others - he already knows what is worth.