How nice to send a guy: a practical guide

Sooner or later, many girls face such a problem: how nice to send a guy ? And the key word here is "beautiful" because how to send a guy roughly and primitively is easy. But why? Everything can be solved in a civilized way, and breaking relations, as well. True, sometimes it is necessary to send a guy culturally , a relationship with which he was not, but he is very keen on them. This article is a practical guide on how to properly send a guy .

So, if the relationship as such, you and the guy did not exist, but he persistently demonstrates his sympathy and hints that it would be nice to move on to closer relations, then it's correct to explain that relations will not be possible in one of the ways listed below.

In a personal meeting, say something like this: "You are a very good person, another girl will appreciate you. It's just that you are not my person. " This method is suitable if the person, in general, behaves intelligently, but does not understand that his signs of attention are unpleasant to you.

If a young man does not understand correct phrases and behaves not quite adequately, then you can also use not quite "beautiful" ways. For example, such.

• Do not answer his calls, and then call back at three o'clock in the morning, do not come to the appointed meetings, or arrive two hours late, and even throw a scandal on the fact that he chose to meet such an unfortunate place where you could not To get.
• You can also demand gifts that the gentleman obviously can not afford, for example, a nice little yacht!
• You can also invite an annoying gentleman to visit you, and leave yourself, leaving a bunch of girlfriends who will try to explain to your young man your attitude towards him.
• To behave so that the admirer becomes ashamed of you: for example, sitting at a table in a cafe, loudly blow your nose and cough. But only in the event that you are not afraid for your reputation.
• To demonstrate in every possible way the presence of a bunch of fans with whom you allegedly maintain a relationship: with him to call them, send SMS, you can even consult an unpleasant gentleman: "Do you think it's better to write to Vasya that I really want him or that I want him very, very - highly? And what to write to Petya? ".
• On a date you can come with a grandmother.
• You can discuss with the gentleman himself how nice to send a guy , and then start applying the fruits of this "advice" in practice with him.

That's how nice to send a guy! True, the word "beautiful" is worth taking in quotes! Most likely, any of these ways will work, and the gentleman will leave you alone.

It is more difficult when the relationship already exists, but they are a burden to you and they must be broken. Here, of course, we must act more subtle and more diplomatic than in the first case. It is important to decide for yourself - whether you want to part completely and irrevocably and continue not to maintain relations or want to try to maintain good friendly relations. If there is a desire to communicate further, the parting should try to soften as much as possible and culturally send the guy . There are some nuances that you should take into account before you send a guy nice.

1) Preliminary it is necessary to rehearse the words, to listen to them as if from the side.

2) It is necessary to choose the right place for a decisive conversation. It is best to do this on a "neutral" territory. For example, in a cafe (but not in the one with which romantic moments are connected) or in the park. You can not talk at home or at home, nor at work.

3) To speak should be extremely honest. This does not mean that you need to tell about everything that does not suit you, but also to say that it is ideal and the whole thing in you is not worth it. You can, for example, say that there is no more "fire" in your relationship or that you can not give the young man the feelings and attitudes that he deserves, and are burdened by it.

If the young man does suggest you think and do not break the relationship, but you do not want to think about it categorically, as well as to vainly encourage him, then you can say a phrase that accurately deflects the desire for the gentleman to continue the relationship: "I realized that up to now I love the former guy. " This, of course, is unpleasant, but effective.