"Named father": the meaning of the word. Father as a teacher

Today, the view involuntarily lingers on the subjects with the participation of men. Dad is carrying a baby carriage with a baby, a little girl is running to meet her father, my father and son are racing down the bike path. What a luck that such fathers exist! Although sometimes it seems like a vanishing sight.

Is Biology Important?

Explanatory dictionaries say that the father is a man in relation to his children. However, is a man always his father a father? The supply of biological material does not yet mean quality paternity.

A real father is first of all a close person, an elder friend and adviser. He is close to any life situations. He is at any moment ready to give a helping hand. Therefore, in this understanding, the function of the pope can sometimes be fulfilled by the elder brother, grandfather, uncle, called father. The meaning of the word "named" speaks for itself. He was called a father. Or he called himself a father. He is not a father genetically, but he plays an important role in the formation and development of the family. Sometimes better than biological, loves, cares, provides and is headed by a family named father. The meaning of the word "father" is thus interpreted very broadly.

Father by vocation

Each of the parents is responsible for a certain area of education. Mom is everyday life, dad is a holiday. For a harmonious development, the child needs both everyday life and holidays.

Active paternity carries a strong male principle, which is important for children of both sexes.

• For the boy, this is an introduction to the male society, an introduction to "men's affairs", a role model, the adoption of the interests and inclinations of the father.
• For a girl this is the standard of a man, an example of a man's attitude toward a woman, security.

Men offer their children a vision of the world, different from women. And whoever takes on this role - the guardian, the father, the older brother - the male upbringing has a special meaning.

Dad can do anything ...

Only his mother can not be, it is sung in a children's song. And this is the real truth. It is not right to think that a father is only needed after five years. Communication with it is born during the period of intrauterine development. After the birth of the baby, the father can do everything the same as the mother, except for breast-feeding. Who said that the father is not able to change a diaper or ride a stroller in the park? Shake the baby, read a book, sing a song? Let this song be not the mother's lullaby, but the composition of the band "Lube", but it will be Dad's caring for the baby, which, as the child grows and develops, becomes Papa's upbringing.

"Ministry of Foreign Affairs"

If you imagine the family as a small state, then the mother is the Ministry of the Interior. It establishes the daily routine, diet and rituals around the hearth.

The Pope is the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. He is responsible for communication with the outside world, takes the child to people, helps to orientate himself outside the family circle. In all cases aimed at the result, the father is the most important mentor: it is impossible to overestimate the importance of active paternity!

Dad even plays with children differently than mom. In the game he is a senior companion, not a parent, he is more active, he is imbued with the spirit of the game. Often children, growing up, remember some moments of communicating with the pope more than classes with mom. Because the games with Dad are filled with bright emotions and impressions for a long time.

Father promotes a more daring cognition of the world, active psychomotor development, it awakens creativity and imagination.

An example to follow

The father, as a teacher, must meet certain conditions and be a model for the child. As you know, there is active and passive upbringing. The first involves doing the actions, the second means demonstrating one's own behavior. The passive supports the active, supplements it.

In this aspect, of course, the named father can also become a model. The meaning of the word "sample" assumes an example for imitation.

So, an invalid teacher will be that father, who, forbidding his son to play computer games, plays them himself in front of the child.

At first, it seems to the children that the pope can not do wrong. Growing up and seeing the difference between word and deed, the guys are disappointed, the father loses credibility. It is proved that children who grew up without father's authority are more inclined to antisocial behavior, disrespect for adults, and moreover - to offenses and even crimes.

Sons quickly adopt the paternal model of behavior. In boys, showing a very strong attachment to the father, copying behavior can take the most extreme forms. Up to the point that small children take off their hats on the street in February frosts only because their father is without a hat. Punishing a kid for this means not recognizing the right to imitate his father. It is better for the father to put on a hat.

The daughter does not imitate the Pope, but on the basis of her father's behavior makes up the opinion of men in this world, adds the image of the "right" man and uses these observations later in adulthood. If the girl was brought up by a worthy father, her husband will necessarily remind the daddy something.

Power structure

If the mother's upbringing is more emotional, is directed to the process itself, then Papina is more demanding, logical and principled, is aimed at the result.

Papino's word, and sometimes even look disciplined. Dad is more strict because he is less prone to emotions. Dad is demanding and less flexible than Mom. In many families, the pope is a punitive instance and, as a rule, has more authority than the mother. But mothers should not be offended, because, having more authority, the father also has a great responsibility. The pope associates with power and authority, and it is the pope, who brings the child to the world around him, is called to protect him from this very world.

A child for whom dad is a close person, will come and tell about troubles and offenders. The father will teach you how to conquer fear, achieve the necessary physical form, tie a sea knot or put the block away from taking karate. In this case, in no case, he will not allow ridicule or humiliating phrases in the address of the child. Taunts can be the cause of low self-esteem, as well as the separation of the baby from the father, the appearance of reluctance to share problems.

The sculptor of a happy mother

They say that the best that a father can give his children is to love their mother. Perhaps we can not disagree, because the love of a woman means involvement in the family, the desire is there and seek a compromise in the difficult matter of educating the future generation. And it's not so important whether the mother or biological father loves mother - the meaning of the word "love" does not change from this.