Male psychology, a realistic approach

It is clear that men and women are different. But not so much as I would like to present it to some authors. Usually people who have good psychotechnology of communication, it is excellent to communicate with their sex, and with the opposite. However, our culture is such that she herself brings up serious differences, which individual women are then forced to overcome heroically. Therefore, male psychology has the right to exist, although it is not the same as, for example, in America.

Usually women are most interested in how to build relationships with men. There are a lot of books written on this subject. However, very many women trust not the research of psychologists, but the dreams from tabloid novels. And this is a huge mistake. So you will see only the female dream of a beautiful relationship. Of course, not all female authors embellish reality, good classics like "The Storm Pass" or "Singing in the thorns" can give more or less realistic descriptions of the relationship.

The male psychology of love is different from the feminine, mainly because from childhood the girls are taught that they are responsible for the relationship. And diplomatic boys can be accused of not being courageous enough. But at the same time, there are more women in the education system than men, and therefore men are accustomed to obey women, and this can be used in relationships. The main thing is to influence him carefully, without causing a protest, to constantly monitor the reaction.

Men in general tend to have stronger attachments than women, says male psychology. No wonder they are statistically more likely to commit suicides, if they leave their beloved. And these are not performances, they choose the ways in which it is almost impossible to be saved, unlike women whose attempts are more like demonstrations.

Men are actually more likely to feel anxious states of women than vice versa. They cover their susceptibility with ostentatious cynicism, so, God forbid, not be accused of sentimentality. The feelings of men are stronger, but they do not know how or do not want to express them, and so sometimes women do not believe in manifestations of love, if the latter are not expressed clearly enough.

Love is of different kinds, but in general, men are less inclined to the sacrificial love of "Agape", "Eros" is much more common. After all, in society, a man is often judged by the number of won victories. And in the end, true single-minded people feel uncomfortable. So one-time adultery can be not proof of dislike, but simply an attempt by a man to meet public expectations. Rich men often have a lover not because of increased libido, but because they are supposed to have a model-looking companion for the sake of representative needs. And not everyone agrees to marry a model, and the majority do not want to give up the tested "wives" in their lives.

The psychology of male love is strongly associated with the idea of possession. It is important for a man to have his rights to a woman exceptional. That's why they are so tormented by jealousy, and it is deep, biological. And women's infidelity, most men do not forgive in the depths of their souls, such is male psychology. And try to make a woman very painful, if not immediately, then after a while. So if a man is expensive - do not change it, it's like a time bomb. If a man has learned of a long-standing betrayal, confidence will still be destroyed. But the truth sometimes comes out very unexpectedly. So take care of your men.

Another feature of male love - they try to prove their feelings in practice. And for the sake of the beloved, there are more willing and willing to work than opportunities permit, and take care of the sweet. Support your loved one, and he will protect you from many difficulties of life, feeling at the same time a real man.