Luzer - who is it, and how to recognize it?

Everyone must have heard the word "loser". Who is this, you know?

This word is of English origin. "Loser" is translated into Russian as a "loser". It seems that everything here is clear. But it is not so. Representations of what the word "loser" means (a loser), at all and everywhere absolutely different.

And the formation of man does not matter. Someone considers losers as pessimists, someone unlucky, someone in general a scum of society. So let's figure out what the word "loser" means in modern society.

Great ambitions

And yet, the loser man, who is this? This is the one who wants to get everything right away, but he does not even do anything himself, so that his dreams come true. As a rule, such people are constantly full of hatred and envy of others, the government. However, they usually do not come to the polls because they are lazy.

Some of the losers simply adore the criminal chronicle. News about murders, accidents and robberies cause them only positive emotions and comments, such as "I said that the world is going to hell!"

The losers consider themselves to be very clever, it's just that they, in the eyes of life, are unlucky. They will never help anyone. Of course, losers can respond to a petty request, like helping to bring a suitcase. However, it is not worth waiting for real help or self-sacrifice from them.

Eternal losers

Luzeram always has no luck. And they have chronic bad luck: the husband drinks and beates his wife and children, his wife walks, children drink and smoke, the roof leaks, the washing machine breaks constantly, and the computer freezes. They all their lives go on the wrong path, they do not like those who like, they get married accidentally, buy during the price increase and sell at the lowest prices. Such people even think that when they give out money in an ATM, they will find a flaw ...

Lusers always do not have enough money. They want everything at once! However, instead of dreaming about how they will create a business and start earning money, they dream about how they will spend money. True, sometimes such people even have money, but they will always and always be few.

Parent-loser, who is this?

Is that possible? It seems erroneous that the meaning of "loser" refers only to hardened bachelors. It is not always so. Absolutely different strata of the population fall into this category. A loser may be a burly mother of the family, and a father with many children. Although, the parents of them, as a rule, useless.

The fact is that raising children is hard work. And as already mentioned above, losers do not like to strain. Therefore, such grief-parents try in every possible way to get rid of their duties. They prefer to take the children to 24-hour nurseries, kindergartens, boarding schools, send them to three shifts in summer camps or throw them to their parents. Thus, they place the entire responsibility for raising their children to other people, which greatly facilitates their lives. And they attribute their mistakes in the upbringing of children to the school.

And the news that their children are registered with the police and not at odds with the law, they are not at all surprised. After all, they have not been lucky all their lives ...

They can not be spared

Luzers always complain. This is their favorite pastime. They do not notice life itself, its colors, ups, downs and sunny days. Do not see other people and all the good in them. After all, they are engaged in eternal struggle with themselves, with the surrounding or with the wind, which blew in their direction.

Why is this happening? Is there any way to help the loser? Better not worth it.

The fact is that their psychology is flawed and leads down. If you "understood" him, you admitted that he was "always unlucky" - you took a step down. If you have admitted that in this life something can not depend on you, that all the bad things you have done, you can justify that you are not to blame for your failures - failures will come. Just because you admitted that this is possible.

From losers it is better to stay as far as possible, they should not be listened to or pityed. Otherwise, they can drag you to a world of grievances and failures.

Now that you know what the word "loser" means, who it is and how to recognize it, you suddenly think that you have similar features. Scared? So that's great! So you're definitely not a loser!

How not to become like them?

In order not to turn into a loser, one must observe certain laws of the universe:

1. Never envy. Do not waste your precious time on this bad feeling.

2. Try to forget about old failures, grievances and disappointments. Do not spoil it all your karma. Know how to forgive.

3. Receive pleasure from the occupation itself, and not from what it will bring benefits.

4. Be selfless and help others.

5. Do not be lazy and do not blame everything else. Start to make the world better with yourself. And be kinder to others, then they will start paying you the same.

6. Maintain relationships with relatives. The family is the most reliable support and a solid rear. Frequent changes of partners lead only to the fact that in the end the person remains completely alone.

7. Be thrifty, but do not be stingy.

8. Listen to the advice of others and choose the ones that are useful to you.