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How to survive the adolescent period?
The adolescent period begins about twelve years, and ends at eighteen. At the end of this stage, in all adolescents, as a rule, the person is fully formed and the process of individuation is completed. There is a formation of its super-ego, that is, each has its own set of taboos, norms and values. During the adolescent period hormones are activated and biological transformation, which is the basis of all psychological changes.
Because of the intensive adjustment of hormones, the body of a teenager begins to change. Sexual secondary signs develop , because of which the child begins to experience anxiety. In some cases, there is an unacceptance of one's own body. Not that shape of the ears or any pimple can become a tragedy. Sometimes the force of rejection is so strong that a thought of suicide may appear.
During the adolescence , de-idealization of the parental objects takes place. This is necessary for the formation of one's own ego. If earlier the parent was God, now he is a stranger. Also, a teenager de-ideals his parents morally. The opinion of friends becomes more significant and important than the opinion of the parents. During this period, the negativism of the child protects him from passive surrender to his parents, who, in turn, are severely criticized. Teenagers consider their parents to be boring and gray inhabitants.
Do not lose the trust of your child during the teenage period - this is the main goal of the parents. After all, everyone experienced this difficult and critical time. Many teenagers during this period are prone to risky and thoughtless acts, from which they should be tried to fence off whenever possible.
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