Self improvement, Psychology
Becoming better: how to stop jealous
Every person knows that it is bad to be jealous. But not everyone can control this destructive feeling in themselves. Very often, and for many, it takes over the mind, subordinating to itself all the good emotions. There are even such people who have envy - this is the second nature, so strong power it has over other feelings. Sometimes a person understands how harmful the influence of envy, and sometimes not. In a sense, these people are hopeless, because they do not recognize and do not realize in themselves the presence of such negative qualities.
Negative qualities of the person poison the existence of the person himself: they do not allow him to move forward, destroy from within, are the causes of depressions, neuroses and, as a result, diseases of the physical body.
How to stop envying: where to start
It is interesting that there are people who do not have a feeling of envy at all. Many of them never suffered from this "disease", and some simply managed to overcome it. It may seem that this can not be done, but specialists working in the field of development and transformation of personality, argue that a person can conquer and envy, and all the other unsightly personal qualities. You need only desire, perseverance and a certain strategy.
How to stop jealous? If you seriously intend to disaccustom from this habit (to some extent envy - the same habit as smoking, alcohol, overeating, etc.), then you need to sit down and think about what exactly you envy.
How to stop envying others: small tips
If you, for example, have determined that you are devoured by jealousy when you see someone else's real estate, car or wardrobe, then do everything to get the same or even better. Direct your energy in a constructive way to ultimately improve your own life. If you do not even have such benefits, following this path, you can acquire such qualities as dedication, perseverance, grip and endurance. You are so entranced by this process, that the envy of time and energy will simply not remain.
Another method is how to stop envying people: you must learn to control these emotions and be aware of them. As soon as you understand that the "attack" begins, do not drown it, do not run away from it, but at the same time do not let it completely take possession of itself. You must live it, feel it, looking at yourself from the side. This detachment will control the feeling of envy, and in the future generally reduce to "no."
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