The godmother - the duties of the sorceress

The sacrament of baptism became for us not a great rite, but rather the same common thing after the birth of a child, as, say, vaccinations. You can, of course, not do, but it's worth it to be safe. Russian people have been torn from the church for a long time. Suffice it to recall the famous novel "The Master and Margarita", where Bulgakov vividly describes the characteristic of that time disdain for faith. That is why modern society has forgotten what godparents are needed for and what the baptismal ceremony itself contains . In the world of bureaucracy, even evidences are issued that the sacrament was held. But if you are a future godmother, study your duties carefully. There are no trifles in this matter!

The godmother: duties and responsibilities

Some girls take this kind of proposals very seriously. All right. You will not only pamper your child with gifts, but be responsible for his moral upbringing. Between the godparent and godson, a special spiritual connection will be formed. You can say that you will be a mentor Man for the rest of his life.

Let's start with the preparation. If there is a baptism of the child, the rules for the cross and the cross are very simple. First go to church and find out when you hold special preliminary talks. There you will be told about the rite and your future duties. Before the sacrament it is necessary to take communion, and the date must also be chosen so that it does not coincide with the days of menstruation at the cross, for it will not be admitted to the font.

In the church you will be explained in detail when conducting common baptismal rituals and individual, as well as voice their value. Do not forget to buy a cross and a special raspashonku (christening dress). There are no special rules regarding who should pay for the sacramental expenses, but it is still believed that this is the prerogative of the godparents.

If both parents were needed earlier, now they often invite only one. Accordingly, for a girl - a woman, and for a boy - a man. But the servants of the church advise following the old canons. After all, the godfather and godmother, whose duties - the spiritual upbringing of the child, are the support and support for the baby.

Are you afraid of such a wonderful "title" as the godmother? Duties and responsibilities scare you? You do not have to worry, but it's worth pondering. First of all, about who invited you. If this is a close person with whom you are connected more than just friendship, and the birth of a baby in a strange family caused your enthusiasm - agree. Knowledge of prayers and faith in God is not always decided by everyone. The main thing is for the baby to become almost native to you. Love is the foundation of the foundations, thanks to it, a special bond will be established between you, which will protect your godson.

If the request comes from a person for you distant, do not be in a hurry to agree. Perhaps the child will love you, and you will, but you can not be sure of that. It is not very good, when the godmother, whose duties are very important, is away from the godson (this means not only and not so much distance as the relationship, the desire to help and participate in destiny). Take the ceremony of baptism very seriously. If you have a cool relationship with the parents of the baby, but the proposal for some reason has arrived, it is better to refuse tactfully.