Reflections of a young girl: How to become better?

Self-dissatisfaction is a quality that accompanies many of us throughout life, constantly poisoning our existence and interfering with the fulfillment of many goals, including promotion and winning the heart of a good guy. And is it possible to find at least one person, completely satisfied with their qualities?

That's what any of us visit so often about how to become better. Especially if you need to become better for Him, for that unique and unique, which should become a true companion for life ...

Well, about how to get better, maybe it's worth thinking about. But how? How and what can this mean for each particular girl? And - this is the most important question - for whom?

To begin with, you need to determine exactly: is it necessary? After all, the attitude towards oneself is very rarely completely adequate. Try to find at least one person who could tell himself - honestly and openly: yes, I love myself. There is a biblical truth about the need to love your neighbor as yourself. This means that you have to love yourself, and this is very difficult. But you can not slide to the swagger!

Looking at yourself from the outside, fair and impartial, allows you to see your own merits and demerits and assess them perfectly adequately, without unnecessary emotions. This is a step towards knowing how to become better, how to improve.

Strictly speaking, one can strive to become the best in comparison with anyone specifically, and it is from this that specific further actions for achieving perfection may depend. If a girl has a desire to become a better colleague at work, sitting at a nearby table in the office, then this is one thing, and if one is impatient to improve their achievements in sports - quite another. But in any case, you need to determine for yourself some goal and strive for it with all your might. And just - how to become a good girl? This is the question that most of the young girls care about, but few people know how to get better.

One of the main qualities that any girl should have, especially if she strives for excellence is full self-confidence. You can even say that this is the most important quality! Confidence in yourself and in your abilities and help any girl to become the best for Him, her lover, whom she can wait for all her life.

Educating self-confidence is not easy, but if there is no such confidence, it will be difficult to find a place in the community, be it a group at a university or a friendly team of employees of the organization. So many of us go to the virtual world, where in virtual communities they find their communication, place, new friends and even a new name and a new face. By the way, what's wrong with the virtual world?

Self-confidence is achieved not least by the knowledge that any girl can possess. After all, when communicating in a virtual world, they pay attention first of all to those who can express perfectly sound and intelligent thoughts, rather than simple empty-headed talkers, right? But in the real world, the same people live, and it will be much more interesting for them to communicate with a smart and interesting girl, and not with a windy and empty-headed girl, although it is interesting to communicate with such some people.

So you just need to be yourself, love yourself just the way it is? Oh, it helps a lot to achieve full confidence in yourself and your strengths, which means it's better to become interesting to others, therefore, better! Here there is a strict dependence: the wider the circle of interests, the more respect for others and friends. The more interesting the girl, the more the circle of admirers, and absolutely to what to impose on the face a thick layer of decorative cosmetics and to seem accessible ...

Goodwill is another quality that allows any girl to become good. If you treat with tolerance and goodwill towards people around you, they will also be only happy to be called friends. In no case do you need to show your bad mood to others, or you can not break your own evil. Good attitude towards people gets very cheap, but very expensive appreciated by others. Similarly, attention is important that can be surrounded by many in need of it. These are only small tips how to become a good girl.

And you can achieve self-confidence if you do not "fixate" too much on your shortcomings, eliminate complexes and think about what is good in us and develop these qualities.

But the most interesting is to just come to God and consult with Him about everything. He will tell you.