Reasons For Revaluation

Each has its own "auditory threshold". Someone hears a whisper, and someone needs to bark in the very ear to jump. Although some will not be enough. Such features of perception. No wonder journalists say: the further from the reader the tragedy occurred - the more corpses are needed to hit him. But fate does not always use such cardinal ways to make us hear it. Sometimes, in order to amaze us, she has enough warnings. Although it increases the content of the "active substance", if we are not able to "correctly understand" it. Small failures, life troubles, troubles, problems, tragedies - all this is not just for fun. Agree, we are really little affected by the problems and tragedies of strangers from distant lands. You can look at these problems or not, you can not hear about them. They can be washed down with tea. Then you can turn off the TV, throw out the newspaper and go to sleep. The real problems of people we meet in our lives - the problems of friends, acquaintances, relatives - they affect more. We try to help. We sympathize. We draw conclusions. But we are aware that the problems of the whole world will not be taken up by your shoulders. Grabs her own. So, faced with something that destroys the familiar world, a person often remains alone with that destroyed world. And, restoring it, himself or with someone's help, too - must draw conclusions!

They say that unhappiness is a virus. Probably, this is an exaggeration. Misfortune is an occasion for revaluation of values. One young and recently successful businessman, suffering from cancer, found out in a month that he had a vacuum. Next to him - only my mother and sister. No friends, no women, who shared with him the pleasure of his success and prosperity. No one is picking up the phone when he calls. Everyone knows that he is living out the last few months. Yes, he himself admits that he apparently caused such an attitude of people towards himself by the fact that he valued the material most of all, perceived people and the world through the prism of money and never really loved anyone. Yes now ... Now it's too late. Sometimes in our little world something happens that breaks us into atoms and inflicts a wild pain, and as a rule, at such times we do not have anyone to talk about it with. That for us - a tragedy, for others - a banal event. Statistics of life's hardship that can happen to everyone. People get sick, die, lose love. Faced with misunderstanding, lies, injustice. It happens. Seldom does anyone hurt their cut finger less than someone else's broken heart. God expects us to draw conclusions. Revaluation of values. Other thoughts, other words, other actions. Let us listen to what he says to us with such unpleasant things as pain, illness, turmoil. Draw conclusions. Do not wait until it's too late.