Punishment with a belt.

Probably, there are few people who would not have experienced the punishment of a belt. But which parent thinks about how this education can affect the future of the child? And the more so, no one thinks about what is happening in the soul of the baby at the moment of punishment and after it. After all, in fact, he is experiencing psychological humiliation, feeling morally destroyed by his own parents.

If in some countries for corporal punishment of children you can get a term, then this is the norm for us. It is a real pleasure for many parents to show their power over a defenseless child. Punishment with a belt only cripples the child's soul, but does not bring him up. Of the children who suffered severe bruising, eventually grow up people with broken psyche. Some of them are not able to do without psychotherapeutic help.

In addition, a child who has experienced the punishment of a belt, in the future will be inclined to lie, hypocrisy, resourcefulness, just to avoid punishment.

Such children look intimidated, they are constantly haunted by the fear of making a mistake and unwillingness to follow the punishment. This leaves its imprint on the psyche of the child, which subsequently reflects on his behavior in the future.

An adult who, as a child, was the subject of violence, it will be difficult to succeed in life or career growth. On usual standard situations, criticism or comments he will react too nervously, excitedly. Such a person will feel that he is being biased and unfair. Also, he will not be able to conduct a conversation within the etiquette with his superiors. And in general, in any life situations without screaming, anger and fury, he can not do. Therefore, such a person will experience certain difficulties in this respect both at work and in relations with the people around him.

So it turns out that when parents are too keen on corporal punishment of a child, they, without noticing it, lay the foundation for his future life failures and disappointments, but not success.

Often, parents disrupt their own bad mood or any worldly failures on the child, again, without thinking that he is keenly aware of the injustice of this attitude, and the worst thing is that along with fear he may have a feeling of anger and revenge for To mother and father.

Punishment with a belt gives the child a feeling of insecurity in himself, in his future. If we compare people who have not achieved a high professional level or career growth with successful managers or managers, then they essentially differ little from each other. Only some have achieved much in life, thanks to confidence, primarily in themselves, in their actions and deeds, while others have shown indecision, the prerequisites for which were their childhood upbringing. Realize yourself in life to such people will be very difficult, and sometimes even impossible.

Parents who applied the punishment of children with a belt, deprive them of their ability in the future to solve their own simple everyday problems, not to mention more difficult life situations.

Children systematically subjected to corporal punishment are deprived of their own interests and needs. For them, everything is decided by the parents, up to what institution to enter, which profession to choose, and, finally, which partner to choose a life. But if you think about it - this is a real tragedy for children. They live not their own, but someone else's, sometimes empty and meaningless life

Therefore, it should be concluded that such physical and psychological punishment, humiliation of human dignity is fraught with the fact that parents who want children happiness, in fact, destroy it with their own hands.