How to make children properly

On the question: "Where did you first learn about sex?" Who first explained the whole system of procreation? " - the bulk of people will answer: "Street, friends were the first teachers on this complex subject."

Unfortunately, this is a fact. After all, even in cases when there are trusting close relations between children and parents, the question of how to properly make children, often puts the adults in a dead end. Parents sometimes can not find a decent answer to this question and either keep silent, or redirect the child to another member of the family, or even just make up all kinds of fables.

A lot of fairy tales, where there is supposedly an answer to this question, even more confuses children. The snow maiden was made of snow, the dough-ball was made of dough, the boy with a finger appeared from a severed finger. And there are also invented by the parents of the version that the children lie under the cabbage in the garden, they are bought in the store or the storks bring. And not so long ago, even a cartoon appeared, in which the authors show how clouds make children, and then the storks carry babies - and the beast, and the kids, to the addresses.

As a result of incorrect explanations, children lose the value of family ties: if children do so easily, it means that they are worthless for the parents? In parallel, the thought arises: "Why then should you love and respect them? You think you found somewhere! Yes, it would be better for me to find another aunt! "And what about the fact that grandparents are in fact the ancestors of the family in this situation is impossible to prove. Maybe that's why the proverb appeared about Ivan, who does not remember his kinship?

So is it worth to hide from the guys how to properly make children? After all, if you approach this question creatively, you can quite easily and figuratively explain to them this complex process. Nobody argues that the topic is quite ticklish, and therefore so interesting for the younger generation.

Of course, if the baby is too young, it is enough to present only the fact of pregnancy. Let his mother's love open for him with such an understandable side for him: mom and dad dreamed about him, very, very much wanted him to be born, and so my mother agreed to wear it in her tummy for almost a year, to bear pain at his birth. This fact will raise the self-esteem of the baby, there will be a connecting thread: he could not appear in any other family! He is the continuation of Mom and Dad.

But for some children this explanation is not enough. They need clarification: "And how did I get into my mother's tummy? And in general - how to properly make children? "Psychologists answer this question to confused parents:" If a child asks such a question, then his thinking is already fully formed in order to get a truthful answer to him. Only prepare for it should be in advance. "

Specially for the help of parents there are even books with pictures and explanations adapted for kids who tell clearly and truthfully how to properly make children, why only adults can have babies and for what moms and dads go to one bed. The main emphasis in these books is made on the love of two adults, the result of which is the birth of an infant.

The situation is worse when adults are already tormented by such a question. Such individuals will find an answer to it in special collections "How do children look from above" in textual material or in the same collections of pictures with signatures. And there is also an interesting video, too, with the same name.

Be that as it may, the most important thing in the birth of the adorable children is the love of their parents, the desire of the two to give up most of their soul, time, energy and, what's wrong, the finance - only for the new man to live Light and happy.

After all, to make and give birth to a child is not a feat. It is much more difficult to nurture this feeble escape, to nurture and nurture it, by investing in its consciousness the basic concepts of human morality, to make it a real man.