Containing is who?

The issues of femininity in the girl's life have always evoked not only interest, but also a lot of disagreements. Recently, more and more often, the beautiful half of humanity can hear for themselves not the best words. They sound like "You are the keeper". In principle, someone will take offense at this expression, and some, on the contrary, will walk with proudly raised head. It all depends on what kind of meaning is embedded in this concept. Containing - who is this? Today we will find out. Is it good or bad to be it? And is it really understood by the keepers of those whom it was customary to call so earlier?

Definition

Our current question raises a lot of opinions and disagreements among people. Therefore, it is worth turning to history, in order to understand, at least, the old meaning of the term. Contingent is a woman who completely lives at the expense of a man (most often already married) and has an intimate relationship with him. That is, not a prostitute and not some girl of easy virtue.

According to the dictionaries of Ozhegov and Ushakov, a mistress who lives entirely at the expense of her lover is guaranteed by him. Pay attention - here the role is played also by the orientation of relations. Common life, as a rule, keepers with their lover do not have, but at the same time they are quite serious. The only real relationship between partners is intimate. It can be said that the keepers of the current concepts are girls who are completely provided with lovers and at the same time are with them in "free relations", without a life, but with a game of love.

Not a prostitute

Some people say that our ladies are real prostitutes. After all, in fact they take money for love and sex. Honestly, this is not quite true. Girls-keepers are not any courtesans at all. Why?

If you still refer to the generally accepted definitions written in dictionaries, you can notice - financial support for the content is available only for one man. And at the same time, after an intimate relationship, she does not take money from her lover. He himself provides the life of the lady of the heart.

So, virtually every mistress is a kept woman. That's how it turns out in practice. After all, most men, having got themselves a mistress, try to fully provide for their new passion. And on a voluntary basis. And this, in turn, is not prostitution. A woman plays in love, while she sleeps with only one lover and is determined to have a long-term relationship.

Societies

For someone, the woman is an insult. And someone, on the contrary, is proud of the fact that he manages to live for his own pleasure at someone else's expense. And the lover usually himself expresses initiative in the content.

Now you can meet even entire communities, which include content in different cities. This is something like a club of interests. In such places keepers (Nizhny Novgorod, Moscow or any other city - it does not matter) gather and share their life stories, the secrets of seduction of men and generally communicate with each other.

Such kind of associations literally praise the finding of complete security for a man. And here the keep is an honorary title, not an insult or something forbidden. Therefore, having visited such societies, quite often girls think about how to start living at the expense of a man. But about this a little later. After all, the keepers are not only those concepts that were considered earlier. In today's world, this "comb" is taken to reduce many women, thereby insulting them.

A housewife

What exactly is the problem? The fact that now the beautiful half of society is no longer valued and respected as a woman. This phenomenon is called the equality of the sexes. That is, the girl's fragile shoulders can be covered by purely masculine duties, and simply by what is not entirely peculiar to the person created for the birth and upbringing of children, housekeeping.

Containing is a housewife. This is how many people in the modern world speak. That is, if a girl does not work, and lives at the expense of her man, but at the same time fulfills all women's responsibilities for housekeeping and keeping the house in comfort and cleanliness, it can literally be called our today's term.

It is not right. Yes, the keepers initially live off men. But if you look at exact definitions, common life and marriage do not bind partners. Doing a household is also a job. Unfortunately, it is not paid in any way. Therefore, it is wrong to call a housewife a kept woman. After all, in society, there must be at least some division of responsibilities. Contributions (St. Petersburg, Moscow and other cities) - these are those who live in pleasure for someone else's account. But in any way housewives, they after all actually work - watch the house. This, too, as already mentioned, is labor, albeit unpaid in practice.

Unemployed

Unfortunately, to the modern world our today's term is very strongly, moreover and often, distorted. Containing is generally any woman who does not work. Or does not bring enough money to the family budget. That's what so many claim. In fact, if the girl herself does not fully provide herself - she is a kept woman. This is judged by modern distorted rules. But in reality the present interpretation of this expression is still preserved.

Do not pay attention to the speech that you are a kept woman, if you do not work, live at the expense of your man (even if it's a husband), but at the same time "home", children and everyday life. Separation of duties has not been canceled yet. Yes, now men and women have the same rights, but there is justice too. If both work, but the girl after a day's work turns like a squirrel in a wheel, and a man rests (that's how it turns out in practice more often), then this is not equality. It turns out "I'm a plowman, I'm a bull, I'm a woman, and a man." That is, in the society from now on there are two extremes. Either the woman is a dray horse, who looks after the house, and brings up the children, and earns money, or the keeper. And under the second concept, as we have already explained, it is precisely the lack of a monetary contribution to the family budget. Circumstances like the decree and the agreement of the spouses are not taken into account. Now this is our society today!

How to become

But we will dwell on more specific concepts. Contingent is a girl who simply lives completely at the expense of her lover. It is this personality that many try to become. In fact, as some real female keepers say, their role is a huge work. And he is not subordinate to everyone. You need to have nerves of steel and endurance to properly "submit yourself."

How to become keeper? For this you must have an attractive appearance. So, we will constantly have to monitor ourselves. Diets, cosmetology procedures, physical exercises - all this will become your life, and on an ongoing basis. At first, these processes may seem like a complete pleasure, but eventually you will realize that it is extremely difficult to keep oneself in shape.

Also keepers (Moscow, Peter or any other city - it does not matter) should have the skills of seduction of men. And a few features that are usually given with difficulty. If the first one can be learned from the books and recommendations of other girls (or maybe seduction in your blood, by nature), then the second is work, work and once again work.

What is it about? Contingency should be able to conduct a household (and just enough to show that you have hands "out of that place"), watch yourself, be a goddess in bed. But the most important thing is that not all women know how. Any woman should be able to listen and be silent. Agree with a man, support him and show that he is the best - that's what will help you become a kept woman.

Websites

What else interesting can you say? To be honest, recently you can find the service "Содержанки.рф" on the Internet. This is the so-called dating site. Here the girls are trying to find a lover.

A good way to find a man who will support you. Although it is often here that many are looking not for a couple, but prostitutes. So, be wary of this kind of services. It is desirable to seek a man in real life. And openly not advertise their plans for maintenance on his part.

Is it worth

We have already found out who the keepers are. These are girls who live at the expense of their male lover, but do not share a common life with him. And the relationship of girls with only one person.

Is it worth it to become a kept woman in the very concept of the term? It has already been said that this is a huge work. And it consists not only in some skills and physical form.

The main problem that haunts all the women is the lack of the right to love. Fall in love with such girls is strictly prohibited. If it is a question of love to the sponsor, then in due course the woman will cease to be, most likely, on the maintenance of the beloved. And it is worth giving heart to another young man, as a providing lover will refuse to pay the girl's life.

conclusions

So we have learned everything that can only concern the contents. As you can see, in the modern world this term is very distorted. And therefore it is difficult to judge whether it is really normal to be on the provision of a man or not. If marriage and serious relationships are understood, the woman is not exactly the correct interpretation of what is happening. Remember, this term applies only to a free girl, who does not associate life with her lover. She simply lives at his expense, has an intimate relationship with his sponsor, but only with one.

To be a true guardian or not? Everyone decides for themselves. In any case, if money is more important to you than feelings, then you can try. True happiness without love does not happen - remember this. But to be kept in a distorted concept (a housewife, a woman in a decree, and so on) can be without fear and remorse.