Child love. What is it like?

Child love. This feeling is familiar to every person. For some reason, adult parents most often do not attach much importance to the suffering of their child. Attitude to children's love in all different. Someone touches, others mock and become irritated by what the kid says and feels. However, it is necessary first of all to understand the child, because he sometimes suffers. At such moments, the support of the parents is simply necessary for the baby.

Unexpected love first time overtakes a person not at school, as is commonly believed. Most often for the first time we fall in love already in kindergarten. This is the most carefree time. Enamored boys give flowers to girls, try to look after them in an adult way. When the child comes home, he talks passionately about how he spent the day in the kindergarten, what he and his girlfriend were doing, what they were playing and so on. Watching a boy or girl in love is very interesting. Moms and dads should give due attention to the stories of their child, because in them he puts all his feelings. It happens that children's love is not mutual. Then the child strongly experiences and really suffers. If we consider this situation in more detail, then all the experiences of the child are much stronger than the adult in love. Children are spontaneous, they all take too much to heart. In the children's world there is no lie, much honesty and innocence. If the object of love of your baby rejects his feelings, you should explain to the child that this is a trifle. Try to impress upon him that there are many more beautiful girls or boys in the kindergarten. Teach your child not to pay attention to the object of his undivided love, convince him that in such a case the girl or boy will soon turn to your child's eyes. Many parents claim that in this case they advised their child to start caring for someone else, to be friends and communicate with other children. This move soon gave good results. Either the favorite little man of their baby paid attention to him, or the child fell in love again with the one who reciprocated him.

Above described is child love at a very early age. However, a child may fall in love with an elementary school, for example. The behavior of children between the ages of seven and eleven years is very different from babies. The fact is that their love manifests itself in a completely different way. Boys pull the girls they like for braids, push, and after school they escort him home. If a girl, for example, rejects the friendship of a boy in love with her, the latter unfolds real hostilities against her. He does everything to harm her, can start messing up notebooks and other school supplies. Girls write their beloved notes, put them in books, without leaving a signature. In addition, girls try in every possible way to help boys who are lagging behind in studies, thus attracting their attention to their person. If you see that your child is experiencing about non-reciprocal love, try to explain to him that you need to take any other measures. Help the daughter or son to choose a small gift to their beloved person. In this situation, do not give sharp and contradictory advice. Act gently, do not insist on anything. Just listen to your child, it will be much easier.

The most complex childhood love comes in adolescence. This is the time of youthful maximalism. Young people and girls make a huge number of mistakes when they try to match the image of their loved ones. This period for parents becomes a real test for strength. Well, if love has come, and the chosen one of your child does not suit you, you can not fight it with a choice. The best thing you can do in such a situation is to bring your child closer to him, to try to make friends with him in order to be aware of everything that happens in his life. Do not forbid the child to meet with a loved one. But the subordination should be respected only if you are sure that your child is not threatened.