Alphonse is not an easy profession

Who is Alfonso? This is a man selling his temperament for money. Parasitization is always condemned by society, especially when it is characteristic of a strong sex. To women of easy virtue, everyone is already somehow used to it, but the man in this role seems disgusting, although the nature of the relationship in both cases is basically similar.

Alphonse is a man's name

In fact, Alphonse is a name that is quite common in the West. As a symbol of a man acquainted with wealthy women for mercenary purposes, it is used exclusively in our country. This is explained by the fact that, firstly, boys have never been called to us, and secondly, the works of Alexander Dumas (son) -a fine French writer-enjoyed extraordinary popularity (at least in past decades) in Russia. So, one of the works of this author is called - "Monsieur Alphonse", and his main character lives at the expense of a rich lady. Of course, they are reading less now than in the past, but the nickname for such "heroes-lovers" has taken hold, even those who did not hold this book in their hands.

Signs of Alphonseism

It seems that from the side of the corrupt man it is easy to recognize. If he meets a woman older than himself, then this alone is enough to earn an offensive nickname. But if everything was so simple, the Alfonso would not have been there for a long time. After all, wealthy women, as a rule, are by no means stupid, and to like them, let alone to voluntarily fork out, you need to have a number of competitive advantages compared to other men. For example, external attractiveness. But not every gigolo is beautiful. So, he should dress nicely and neatly. But even here there is no unambiguous rule, accuracy is characteristic of many quite worthy men. In general, one criterion does not reveal them. We need a set of characteristics, a combination of which speaks of a parasitic way of life.

Unconditional generosity

Since stinginess is the main distinguishing feature of all gigolos, the most sophisticated among them during the first visits show exaggerated generosity in the hope of compensating for the costs incurred. They also use other external signs of a "real man", for example, laconic. Actually, contrary to the opinion of Mueller (performed by the artist Bronevoy), taciturnity is not a sign of seriousness, it is peculiar to all phlegmatic people, regardless of human qualities, but Alfonso uses this quality in order to look smarter and not blurt out excess. So on the first date you can get a completely wrong impression of your companion.

Evaluative look

An important criterion by which gigone is determined is the excellent awareness of the prices of cars, clothes, status accessories, premium products and drinks. This is the professional knowledge necessary for the correct choice of the object of attention. All our women try to look beautiful and fashionable, but the task of the real gigolo is to select from the general mass one that has in fact serious financial opportunities. Therefore, it is unmistakable to distinguish between "firm" and "counterfeit". Here, on this glance, comprehensively assessing the view, you can understand that this man did not just start a conversation and his intentions are serious.

The exposure is inevitable

If the relationship develops, then sooner or later the moment will come when the male Alphonse will "forget" the home of the purse. It will be found in the restaurant or when it comes time to pay for expensive tickets to the theater, for example. Then the process will go on increasing. When asked about the reasons for the sad and worried expression, a story will follow about sudden financial problems, necessarily with the preamble "I did not want to tell you ...". About sick relatives, own deadly gossips and other troubles really touching can tell only alfonso. Photos are usually attached for greater credibility. At this stage, you should be alert and make inquiries about your chosen one. In any city there is a list of gigolos that have "lit up" already repeatedly, because real mastery is achieved by practical exercises.