The child left the kindergarten - who is to blame? Who is responsible for the child in kindergarten?

The problem of independent care of children from the kindergarten is acute before teachers of children's preschool institutions. And this does not mean that almost every day there is a situation in which the child left the kindergarten, but immediately no one noticed, and therefore the search begins after 30-40 minutes. But it is impossible to completely exclude such a situation, unfortunately. Who is to blame for the situation and how to prevent it from repeating itself?

How it all starts

So, morning. Mom wakes the baby, clothes, feeds, cleans teeth and leads to the kindergarten. That's it from the moment the baby is transferred to the tutor and the responsibility of the garden for the child comes. In different preschool institutions, this is indicated in its own way: in some it is enough just to say hello to the teacher and bring the child to the group, in others - to sign in the magazine, and thirdly - some other options they need. Therefore, it is desirable that in the kindergarten there were clear rules for the transfer of the baby to the responsible person (educator).

Of course, not all kindergartens have fences made of solid sheets of iron or built in the form of brick walls. Especially, guards and intercoms - this is generally a rarity, especially in small towns. Perhaps the guard would be easier, because he could track outgoing and incoming kids. On the other hand - from a technical point of view - it would be more convenient to have a doorphone at the entrance with a high-placed button.

But, perhaps, if all the rules are followed, the question that the child has fled the kindergarten will not even rise.

Punish or not punish a child?

None of the parents and educators, unfortunately, is immune from the fact that an escape may occur. Therefore, the responsibility of the first includes conducting repeated conversations with their children about the fact that you can go to the kindergarten and from the kindergarten only when accompanied by a mother or father, grandmother or grandfather. That is, those adults who are constantly in the field of view of the baby. And the responsibility for the second is the constant control over their wards. After all, and so it is clear that not all kids are equally obedient and agree a whole sadikovsky day to sit on a stool or play quietly with dolls, little animals, cars.

How can we act if the child left the kindergarten after all? That after the baby is found and returned to the group, or should parents do to Mom and Dad to try to explain to him that this can not be done, that everyone is very worried because of his wrong deed? Just put side by side and talk heart to heart or spank more forcefully and put in a corner, depriving sweet, cartoons and walks (to activate the memory of the child)?

Knows and does; Does without knowing ...

Punishment makes sense only under one condition: the child does a bad deed absolutely consciously, knowing that the deed is bad, and that he does wrong. And if the child left the kindergarten and does not even guess that this should not be in any case, then there is nothing to punish him. It is necessary to explain to him that without the permission of the educator you can not leave the group or walk, climb between the fence rods or under the fence itself, you can not open the gate. Try to gently paint a verbal picture of what can happen to children who choose to be too independent: dangerous roads, inattentive drivers, uncovered hatches, unfinished construction sites, evil uncles and aunts ... And be sure to warn that the next time this happens again , The kid will be punished (it is advisable even to voice what kind of punishment will follow).

To punish or not punish educators, nurses and the head? The parent did not bring the child to the kindergarten

Many parents (especially those who have encountered the problem in question) often discuss the following question: "The child left the kindergarten: how to punish the caregiver?". Yes, of course, if this happened, the fault lies entirely with the caretaker. I did not watch, I did not follow, I did not warn, I did not save, I was distracted. But ... We all know that there are absolutely unmanageable children, which it is difficult not only for parents to cope with, but also for educators with vast experience. These are children who are very fond of messing about, doing everything on the contrary and completely not listening to the words of adults. Many of them, and becoming older, continue such shoots - from school, from home, from the city ... So who is responsible for the child in kindergarten and who is to blame if the escape occurred? Let us dwell on more ordinary cases.

So, we already mentioned that responsibility for karapuzikov preschool age is assigned to educators, nurses and even the head, but only from the moment when parents "hand over" the child "from hand to hand". There are cases when a child leaves the kindergarten independently, for example, after the parent, and the teacher is not to blame. Yes, yes, it happens, and that's why. Situation: the father should send one child to the kindergarten, the second - to school. First he takes the youngest to a kindergarten, but, hurrying with the second to school, does not stop for five minutes to control how the child undresses and enters the group, and, bringing him to the garden doors, turns around and hurries to school. Kid, starting to change, notices that, for example, the blouse, which should be worn in the garden, my father did not leave. Thinking that Papa had simply forgotten, and the jacket was with him, the baby ran after him. In this case, the child left the kindergarten not because he indulges, he hurries after his clothes. Since the father did not bring the child to the kindergarten building, then, of course, the teacher has no idea that this baby was brought. Naturally, and that he ran away, she can not guess.

One kid is running, the other is crying ...

Another thing is when, for example, children are on a walk, the weather is good, the sun shines brightly. A teacher, in addition to closely monitor them, talking with a colleague or on the phone. In this case, the fault of the caregiver is absolutely clear.

There are, of course, ambiguous situations in which the teacher at the corner of his eye notices that one of the babies is sneaking up to the half-open gate, but can not immediately run after him, because other children demand her immediate attention (for example, at this moment, Then fell heavily or cried loudly). Initially, an important task of the teacher on a walk is to involve the kids in some kind of game, so that they have neither the time nor the desire to escape somewhere. In any case, we must first understand the situation. But if the guilt is fully proved, then the punishment must be followed immediately.

Fugitive from Tyumen

One egregious incident occurred early this year: the child left the kindergarten. Tyumen - as a city where all this happened, "became famous" for the whole country. A five-year-old ran away from the kindergarten during a quiet hour. In a 30-degree frost, he wandered along the street for a while, until the barber's hairdresser paid attention to him. She led the boy into the room and called the police. The woman immediately realized that he was very cold: he had red and cold cheeks and pens (the child was in the frost for about an hour).

My mother already found law enforcement officers. It was they who gave her the baby.

Why did the teacher fail to notice that the child left the kindergarten, (Tyumen literally "buzzed" from what was happening), remains unclear. But she has already been reprimanded, and she wrote a statement of resignation. The manager and the head of the kindergarten received a reprimand and a remark.