Ruby wedding

On the question of what kind of wedding, 40 years of marriage, the answer is one-ruby.

Ruby wedding ... Forty long and not always simple years ...

If the husband and wife together celebrate the forty years of their life together, then they are about sixty or more years old. But this does not mean that there is no love, no feelings between them. Quite the contrary. After all, they are bound together by so many memories, events - good and bad, so much grief and joy experienced, in half.

Perhaps, it is the ruby wedding that makes it clear that the spouse with whom he lived for forty years is the closest, most reliable and native person, with him one can carry the burden of living together.

The children scattered around, they have their own families, their worries. And now they were alone, retired and live soul to soul, experiencing the second spring in their relationship.

Ruby wedding received its name from the red color of the yaho, meaning one thing: during these years the husband and wife became practically blood relatives. And one more sign: the ruby has always been considered a stone. Symbolizing wisdom and nobility.

Being on the second place after diamond, ruby after processing becomes the most beautiful precious stone. Here and in family relations the same thing happens: over the years, as if being subjected to processing with a confident hand of a jeweler, enduring numerous difficulties and adversities, they become stronger. And after forty years of love, not only does not fade, on the contrary, it lights up the bright light of the ruby, turning into a jewel.

Ruby wedding - a holiday that symbolizes a long and beautiful love. Therefore, it is necessary to celebrate it in a special way, to make it for the heroes especially dear, remembered for the rest of their life by triumph.

How is a ruby wedding celebrated?

Based on the color of this gemstone, it is easy to understand that the dominant one at the celebration will be red. For this purpose, you can decorate the 40th anniversary of your wedding anniversary with curtains, tablecloths, balloons with a heart shape, everything that has a red color. It is desirable to hang posters with greeting inscriptions everywhere.

Rituals, which would be a ruby wedding, almost no. However, in the Caucasus there is still a very beautiful custom that can be used at festivities in other countries. The couple should eat a ripe garnet together. And the husband should cut it without a knife, and the wife - to clean. Then the "newlyweds" feed each other with seeds, while making sweet words. And if the pomegranate is eaten up to the last grain, and the words never recur, it is believed that together they lived for forty years knowingly, preserving their love and mutual understanding.

There is another custom: on this day the wife and husband eat up cherry-tied cherries, and bones dig in. It is said that in a few years two cherry trees with intertwined trunks grow on this place.

And what do they give to a ruby wedding?

Of course, the main gift is, of course, ruby, jewelry and jewelry from it. Usually it's earrings, rings, bracelets, pendants, etc. If the gift is not allocated a very large amount, then you can go for the trick and give the clock: because in any mechanical model of the clock necessarily using a ruby, albeit artificial.

In general, you can give absolutely everything that has a red color - vintage wine, bouquets, house plants that bloom in such a shade - azaleas, pelargonians, who are the keepers of the family hearth, etc. In the end, you can just wrap the present in a packing paper of ruby color.

However, there are certain things that you can not give to a ruby wedding. These are clothes, bedding , kitchen utensils and set. The main thing in a gift is the love and respect invested in its purchase.