Life, Death, Memory

In Christianity, the death of a person is an obligatory transition between life in the world of people and life after death . Death constantly takes away from all people their earthly past, present and future , their dearest loved ones. But those who have already been stolen by death are rarely remembered by people, also, as it were, stealthily, in themselves, silently, as if they are afraid of another heavy loss. For such a secretive attitude to their deceased relatives, there are probably reasons: the Christian preference is better to bear grief in oneself than to share it with the whole world; The consequences of mutual mistrust even between native people; Certain influence of terrible betrayals in the near future of Soviet repression. If you still take into account the proverb: "It's good to talk about the dead, or nothing," then in general it turns out that people can say very few kind words about their dead relatives, so it's better to keep silent about them.
When a person refrains from telling about his life or about those close to whom death will ever come, this is due, at least, to the fact that he is afraid for the safety of his and his personal data. But he who crossed the border of eternity is no longer bound, like all living things, by the protection of his personal information or by the satisfaction of some mercantile interests. The deceased needs only a good eternal memory of himself, as well as forgiveness, if he did something wrong in his life. Apparently, this is the greatest value in that human world and the main task of his memory. The same is absolutely necessary, inherent in living people, since death and the Court are equally for them. Unfortunately, the soul of the deceased person, instead of constant spiritual support, memories and experiences, with which only she eats and saves, receives from her relatives and relatives forced limited silence and eventually gradual oblivion. Probably, demons rejoice at this mutual "concentration camp" division of living and dead people.
Despite the imminent end of any human life, Russian cemeteries and churches are filled by memorial dates only 1-2 days a year. All this testifies to the almost indifferent attitude of modern people to the memory of all their relatives, to the impending own transition to another world and to the memories of future descendants about themselves.
The memory of the life and death of loved ones is the spiritual value that people still have and can preserve forever. Although the Internet is a powerful information archive and an ambulance from any oblivion, but it is worthy to preserve and maintain your memory of family and friends during their lifetime and after their death, almost none of our contemporaries are trying. The basis for such an assertion can serve, for example, one of the most authoritative international Internet resources - the catalog www.dmoz.org, in which from all highly educated 150-millionth our country was typed only 20 Russian family family sites. If the family is the main link in society, then such an empty condition is unfortunate. All other media, unlike prerevolutionary practice, also do not publish death announcements and short life stories of ordinary people, but only in words admit that the life of each of us is unique and priceless.
And yet now our future with the help of web-memory is no longer, as before, deaf, blind and dumb towards ordinary people living in the past and the present. For this purpose, an Internet resource has been created, where it is possible to create a family site almost free of charge, in which to restore family bloodlines, to support memories of deceased relatives, to publish not only death announcements, but also the histories of their lives, testimonies of their personal qualities, hopes and successes, Post photos and videos. Such a family site unites people's interests in the common past and future, includes and extends communication between relatives and friends, helps to correct spiritual problems and mistakes in relations between people, facilitates the search for missing persons, allows establishing new useful contacts, keeps mutual understanding between different generations And the necessary good relations with each other in the family. Confidentiality of personal information in site messages is filtered and managed by the users themselves, protected by their own individual password at their will.
The importance of each person in the history of his family, the memory and well-being of society increases, if the family sites, personal pages are actively used. The pedigree of your family, yourself, your relatives, close people , friends, loved ones, good acquaintances will not be lost and forgotten because of the inevitable mortal desolation and "silence of the lambs", but they will take their rightful place in the memory of your descendants thanks to modern information technologies . This should end the time of spreading the stones on which life is built, the time of mutual alienation, the severance of relations due to minor misunderstandings, general misunderstanding, distrust and oblivion between generations, between relatives and close people.
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