Indifference ... Is this feeling or feeling?

A man and a woman are two poles, between which a sea of feelings and emotions rages. And a lot of controversy as to what is more terrible, arises in a situation where indifference and hatred are being discussed. As a rule, to understand them independently is not easy.

According to psychologists, indifference is a complete lack of desire to change someone's life, including their own. People who suffer from this condition are characterized by a complete lack of emotions, feelings and constant apathy.

The main reason for this state is not in the external environment. The whole fault of the experience of a person, his constant reproaches of conscience or continuous internal dialogue. And, answering the question what it is, it should be noted that the feeling of indifference prevents all living around, including the very subject that radiates it, from living.

One of the reasons for the birth of such a state is an instinctive desire to protect oneself from the external world, which causes so much pain and sorrow. It turns out that the consequences can be extremely serious. And indifference is not only indifference to external changes in the environment, but complete apathy to oneself.

Very frequent causes of this condition are alcoholism, drug addiction, as well as many mental illnesses and the use of medications. If indifference is not developed strongly enough and its form is short-lived, it is completely curable. As a rule, it is caused by a regular need for love and affection.

A very serious question, which concerns family psychology, is connected with the attention of the husband, or rather, with his complete absence. In this case, indifference is not the root cause, but the consequence of some situation or problem. It does not arise and does not appear from scratch. The main task of the pair in this case is not to concentrate only on yourself, but talk and find out the reason. Perhaps it was a domestic conflict, a situation related to work, even the manner of speaking.

It is important to remember that there is a situation where it is difficult to determine what a person feels: indifference or hatred? It turns out that the first of these feelings can manifest itself in any way, even in the form of apathy. A person becomes indifferent to himself and others. As for hatred, it is considered a bright and strong manifestation of any emotions, which prevents one from really thinking and existing as the subject from whom it originated, and the object to which it is directed.

The most important thing is to try to explain that it is impossible and wrong to live in the light of such emotions. They dry up the soul and torture the body, because the human body is accustomed and must live in love and affection, in joy and peace.

Having learned that indifference is a completely disposable state, one must immediately begin to deal with the elimination of this internal problem. First it will be dialogues. If they do not bring the desired result, it is best to contact a psychologist. But in no case should not be locked in yourself! After all, in closed doors no one will get through if you do not want it yourself!