How to understand a woman. Hidden desires

To the two most pressing issues of mankind, voiced at the time by a classic, one more, equally important, was added. How to understand a woman? Does the phrase sound funny and beaten? Not so simple as it really is. A weak, fragile and irresistibly beautiful sex is endowed with such a unique and charming quality as mystery. And not only for men, but for themselves too.

All this airiness, emotionality, bursts of mood are due to the fact that the girls are already from birth, swinging between their own vague desires. To slightly ease the task of understanding the sexes, we will try to at least partially answer the question of what women dreams are.

To begin with, we will clarify the situation of the very nature of misunderstanding. The fact is that the strong sex has always been more specific in everything. If you go to the store, then with a list and preferably a detailed description of the entire product in detail. With individual representatives, you can even run into such a problem that, in the absence of an exact location of the product on the shelves, he will certainly choose the one that is something, but does not coincide with the characteristic of the sought. Every man is accustomed to what exactly knows what he needs, in what quantity and what size. In the presence of more criteria, he immediately immerses himself in philosophical thoughtfulness.

Any girl is literally full of her purely individual fantasies and aspirations. And it can be as a very specific position (I want black suede shoes on the platform and a hairpin strictly ten centimeters), and something quite abstract like "I would now have something to make my heart feel nice and goose bumps" . How to understand a woman when it comes to expressing desires directly? The question is not easy. After all, with more detailed questioning, she may even take offense at her partner ("you do not listen to me / you know / appreciate / love"). The key in this phrase is the particle "not".

Men should learn several important rules. When a girl says such an ephemeral phrase, indefinitely spreading her hands in the air, the reasons for this may be several.

• She wants a man to make her enjoy herself and on her own. Agree that all the time to expose your desires to an accurate technical description - the occupation is very tedious. Sometimes a woman wants a holiday, surprises and surprises. How to understand the girl in this case and please her? Just hug her, kiss her and run to the nearest shopping center. Even if your gift is another trinket, then such a manifestation of care and attention your beloved should still appreciate. After all, you bought it yourself, without additional questions. What's the difference that she already has 19 similar porcelain figurines? A gift from a beloved man is always a pleasure. It is worth adding that, nevertheless, the most unbeatable option will be jewelry, a set of beautiful underwear or perfume. But this is for those who have sufficiently studied the tastes of their second half.
• She wants a man to give her something specific, but hesitate to ask about it. In such a situation it is better to catch the notes of certainty and unobtrusively to elicit from the blessed object of her lust. How to understand a woman in this case? Yes, it's just that she is a representative of that already disappearing character storehouse, where pride, independence and good upbringing do not allow her beloved to bet on the fact of acquiring something expensive. Enter her position and feel the pride of her girlfriend.
• The last and most complex scenario. She really has no idea what her soul wants. And guessing here will be extremely difficult. It's almost impossible. Who knows what your lover will wish for this time? A plush sports suit for fitness or a horse ride in the park? How to understand a woman in this situation? Dear and certainly very patient men! Fix your heart and try to combine everything at once. Try to offer your loved one to go shopping and choose the one that she wants. On the way make a stop in a cozy cafe. Even if she originally wanted something extra-terrestrial and "cosmic", then such a simple and very mundane manifestation of attention (as well as generosity, do not forget) will definitely soothe her heart.

Finally I want to say that to understand a woman is not given to almost anyone. So do not be discouraged if, from time to time, her desires and behavior lead to a dead end. This is absolutely not a signal for parting. Believe me, another woman will sooner or later repeat this situation. After all, all the girls live in their own ideal world. But to bring real conditions closer to those fantasies only men are capable. Be attentive to your loved ones, and you will certainly learn to understand them.