Former Husband: How to Return It?

You have always dreamed of a big and strong family, in which the husband will be a true support and protection. The dream came true, you got married, and, it seems, lived happily and happily. But at one point everything collapsed: the beloved husband left the family, not really explaining the reason for such a rapid withdrawal. Moreover, he filed for divorce, and you should be dissolved in the near future. Common situation? Surely you now do not know how to live on, because still love your husband. What to do: start a new life or try to keep the old one? While the ex-husband is far from you and is not going to come back to you, you can do the first steps to applying yourself. At least, try, because no one will judge you if you do everything to renew a once-strong union.

First, gather your spirit and stop crying in the pillow. All the same, it will not make it any easier for you, and even the ex-husband will not see these sufferings. It is better to take time for a loved one, go to the hairdresser and beauty salon. Parting with her husband - this is not an excuse to go into depression. Moreover, you are going to return your husband, and for this you need to be in combat form. Make a beautiful hairstyle, buy a pair of elegant dresses and high-heeled shoes. To drown out the pain, you do not have to rush to cakes or alcohol. Excess weight and poor health you do not need.

Sitting at home, in a relaxed environment, try to analyze your relationship with her husband. Pay attention to what difficulties you had to face in family life, how often you quarreled, and what was the reason. Remember that you were annoyed with her husband: maybe he was bored with your everyday omelettes, or it's boring to sit with you every evening in front of the TV. This is necessary so that you can understand the reason for leaving her husband from the family. Very often, the family leaves those men who lack female attention, affection and sex. It will not be surprising if your husband goes to another woman: having found the one who managed to outdo you (for example, in terms of sex), he, without hesitation, will move to her in search of a better life. Of course, probably you already know why the husband left. Then we move on to the next action plan.

It seems as though the ex-husband does not understand you, if you call him, beg to go back and even threaten, because without him you do not have any reason to live on this land. By such actions you will only frighten him and already lose the last chance for reconciliation. Zalyagte to the bottom. Try at least for a while not to look for occasions for a meeting and do not dial such a familiar phone number. Simply put, do everything to disappear from his life. It is likely that the former husband will become bored without you, understand what happiness he has lost, and he will already think about reconciliation. It's not for nothing that they say to miss a person, you just need to forget about its existence.

Now the last is left. Having sustained a pause, we proceed to take decisive action. In order to try to return her husband to the family, it is necessary to appoint a date for him. Do not order a table in the restaurant, you better call him home, because here you have experienced more than one happy moment together. Prepare his favorite dishes, light candles and open a bottle of wine. Remember, once your family also began. It is worth noting that you do not need to insist on an urgent appointment. If the ex-husband says that he does not work, wait and call tomorrow tomorrow. Only in that case you can count on reconciliation, if from his side you still have feelings.

Finally, you met. Most importantly, talk to him. Do not swear and remember the unpleasant moments of your life together. You already analyzed everything, and now you know what you were doing wrong. Just remember how you felt good together, look at the family photo album together. Will the husband return? And this will depend on how he perceives the current situation and whether he will want to save your marriage. A man is an unpredictable creation, but he always chooses that life where he is warm and cozy.