What is love addiction

Each person once in his life wondered how to get rid of love addiction. It is generally believed that it is more inherent in the weaker sex, but this is far from being the case. Just men are more secretive and do not always express their thoughts on such questions. Love dependence in men has a huge impact on everyday life as well as in women. A paradoxical situation has arisen: everyone who wants can acquire almost any specialty, get two or even three higher educations, but they forgot about more important things, so to speak, urgent. As a result, a person finishes school, an institute, knows a lot about the structure of the universe, but builds his personal and social life, relying more on intuition. Although understanding your actions is the basis through which stable relationships are created with other people, a healthy society is formed.

What is love addiction, which some people want to get rid of? If you do not go into the subtleties of psychoanalysis, then this term means a person's desire to contact with representatives of the opposite sex. And not only in the physical plane, but, rather, in the spiritual. Love dependence is a manifestation of one of the spiritual principles, because its explanation lies outside the realms of reason and logic. The arguments of the respected Freud have long been questioned and can not fully explain what is happening.

Why can one person live peacefully alone without feeling deprived in anything, while another person wants to constantly communicate with another person? This is the love addiction. It's no secret that men and women have different energetics. Most esoteric teachings share this view. This is very easy to be convinced: it is enough to imagine several situations in your mind and analyze your reaction to them. Also, it is not superfluous to use life experience and logic.

For example, many married couples do not understand where the attraction, thanks to which the decision was made to create a family, has disappeared. Until quite recently everything was fine, and after a few years (this time interval depends on the temperament) a close person becomes even more distant than before acquaintance. Changing the appearance, which is often written off changes in feelings, is not always the true reason. It would seem that the person is the same, but there is no desire for him, it has irretrievably disappeared. This is due to the full complement of his energy with the influence of another person. In fact, interest disappears. But, as is known, there is no emptiness in nature, so a person starts to look for a new object for falling in love and, as a rule, finds it. A new stage in the exchange of energy begins, defined by the term "love". A little time passes and ... everything repeats. Thus, love dependence is manifested. A person can not live normally while alone. Is it bad? There is no unequivocal answer. From the point of view of morality and social norms, it is bad. But the nature of this person "speaks" quite the opposite.

To families in which someone is excessively dependent on love relationships, one can recommend learning sublimation - substituting attraction with a creative beginning. For example, a rare woman can think of new love while living a full life: traveling, visiting salons and boutiques, she deals with children together with her husband, she is given attention (giving energy). Also, men: a love affair can be transformed into the creation of a home, the arrangement of a place of residence, occupation by a favorite business (fishing, motor sport). And the most cardinal method is to take the help of a specialist. Usually, treatment in trust groups is popular and quite effective. But in this case it will be necessary to openly recognize the dependence as a disadvantage, for which not everyone can decide.