Marriage With an Alien In Russia: Advantages And Disadvantages

A real phenomenon, which some sociologists described as female marital migration, was noted in the mid-nineties of the twentieth century. This happened just when the notorious "Iron Curtain" collapsed, and the girls got a very real opportunity to realize their blue dream.

A coveted marriage with an alien has become a very real possibility. Imagination of romantic young girls drew almost milk rivers with crocheted shores waiting for them - there ... And marriage with a foreigner seemed like a happy meeting with a fairy prince.

But still, reality often turned out to be quite different from the old fairy-tale that the naive romantic girls expect. It turned out that the welfare of a foreign husband was based on savings, and had nothing to do with possible luxurious gifts.

And how many cases were brought about marriage scams and trafficking in people! How many stories about different career failures ... The rain that was iridescent and at the same time cloudy and foamy euphoria wave was over, the divorce began, and the marriage with a foreigner ceased to seem good.

Since then, the girls have already traveled abroad themselves, communicate with "them" in chat rooms, just like this and preparing to successfully marry a rich foreigner. The number of clients of international marriage agencies did not become less ...

At present, marriage with a foreigner has again become a prestigious business. Every year more and more girls again began to marry citizens of other states and leave their homes. And in fact, in marriages between citizens of different countries, the groom is usually a foreigner, so again we can talk about "female migration", that is, take our girls to distant lands ...

Among the girls and women for whom the marriage with a foreigner is so desirable, there are two categories - very young inexperienced girls of twenty-twenty-five who have just graduated from high schools, and experienced women of 35 years of unsuccessful experience in marriage, and, possibly, with kids.

Marriage to a foreigner has both positive and negative sides. Of course, many girls who marry foreigners go to their homeland's homeland in search of a higher standard of living and a different, more humane attitude to society, and very often they get it.

The fact is that often "they" have a realistic assessment of the person not according to the "pole" he takes, but according to the available abilities and opportunities, for the benefit that the worker can bring to the firm. In our own country, a person in itself is worthless, and the elite is simply not in demand.

Thus, marriage with a foreigner in Russia can become not just a step towards achieving prosperity, but also a very tangible push for development, which makes girls more determined and purposeful in achieving the set targets, which previously seemed simply an impossible dream.

There is another rather serious reason for a new surge in marriage migration. Foreign "princes" on white limousines do not now perceive the Slavs as completely free servants, and our girls no longer play the role of amusing and exotic toys or original accessories for the release, although the beauty of the Slavic girls known throughout the Western world continues to attract attention Suitors with the decadent West. In addition, "their" in our girls attracts the original orientation toward the creation of a family, and not to the career that is typical of Western girls.

But, as often happens, along with many obvious positive qualities, marriage to a foreigner has some drawbacks, which are a continuation of the existing merits. All expectations that marry a foreigner in Russia are often broken when moving abroad. This is mainly due to differences - cultural and psychological between our countries. Often, these differences can become so significant that they can cause a divorce and return to their homeland ...

Our girls may simply not fit into the western life, which causes them confusion and even a storm of negative emotions with all possible consequences.