How to become a goddess in bed: 10 simple steps

Bedding is a place where many women feel extremely constrained. However, love should not be limited to a minimum or a base, you need to expand your horizons. In each of you there lives a goddess, and in order to let her out, you need to study the following simple steps.

Know your body

Be active, sign in to the gym and see what it will give you. The most productive thing you can do is work with your personal trainer at least three times a week. In the remaining time you should do it yourself on the simulators to stay in good physical shape. Sex largely depends on endurance, so you need to work on it. Knowing your body means accepting it as it is - with cellulite, with a scar from a caesarean section, with fat on your hands, with freckles, curly hair, and so on. In addition, you will need a basic knowledge of anatomy, since it will be useful for you to know what you are dealing with - so you can get the most pleasure.

Learn to let go

Many women represent their partners as superheroes because they can deliver them a violent orgasm. However, you should understand that almost every man can give you a violent orgasm. Your point G is your superhero, not your partner. And when you understand this, you can let go of all those emotional connections that hold you back on your path to happiness. You can heal yourself mentally, without even thinking about it. Any emotional block can be removed by a strong orgasm, so it's very important to be able to let go and stay true to your principles. It is important for you to understand that you yourself emit passion and sexuality, regardless of your partner, and this is very important. So you need to be in an environment where nothing will hold you back, where you can let go of anything that pulls you to the bottom, to experience the maximum pleasure from sex.

Do not be ashamed of yourself.

For most partners, your past unsuccessful sexual experience can be daunting, but you should not be afraid of it - you need to deal with it. First of all, you need to get rid of the feeling of shame, because it is inside of you constantly and all the time corrodes you. You do not need to be a "broken" person to discover unusual attractions in sex. And you definitely should not be ashamed of this, although many people will look at you sideways, for example, if they learn that in sex you prefer to be subordinate, although in real life you always dominate everyone. Any sexual passion has its own reasons, and even if you want to obey your partner, it does not mean that you are "broken" in sexual terms - it only means that you want your partner to dominate you. Conversely, many women still think that absolutely everything in the process of intimacy should be controlled by a man. But do not forget that even the strongest men sometimes like to obey. That's why it is worth using this recommendation and certainly try at least once to establish their own rules of the game. And your partner will not only be surprised, but also intrigued. It is unlikely that he will have anything against such changes.

If you stop being ashamed of yourself and your desires, you can soberly assess what exactly you want from sex and what you are ready to go to bed for.

Pleasure is a journey, not a destination

In this age, too much is said about male sexuality, at the same time the idea of female sexuality is hidden in the fog of mystery. Women still do not know the basics of their own anatomy, and this is complete insanity. It is worth remembering that pleasure is a journey, not a destination. Do not concentrate solely on penetrative sex, because because of this other interesting options are forgotten. For example, oral sex is a wonderful way to achieve orgasm.

Use toys

You can discover sex in a new way, using sex toys. You can start with something not very impressive. After that, you can start looking for the toy that you like most for you - it can be absolutely anything. It's time to relax and more calmly and widely look at sex, and you need to do it right now.

Experience multiple orgasms

One orgasm is not enough. Therefore, aim for something more - for multiple orgasms. If you have never experienced multiple orgasms, then you urgently need to pay attention to them. After all, they are something special and incredible for you as a woman. This is what nature repaid to women for the pangs of childbirth and menstruation. Therefore, immediately tune into a new way and, if you previously did not know about multiple orgasms, it's time to recoup the past. It's time to find out what will make you experience multiple orgasms and go on a journey of supreme pleasure.

Know Your Features

Yes, they do exist. You need to find those places where you have the most nerve endings, respectively, and hypersensitivity. Those places, when you contact with which your brain lights up with attention. Your erogenous zones are a magical miracle. Perhaps the most incredible things on the planet. Each woman has her own character, which needs to be studied and curbed. Women's erogenous zones are as diverse as men's, respectively, they need to be treated with no less respect.

Have sex

Unfortunately, to date, most women suffer from a lack of sex. Do not look at the statistics. Find someone you would like to have sex with before losing consciousness. And if your sex life is so full, your heart will be filled with passion. The heart easily follows the words, actions, and also simply for good sex, it is easy to enter into zayulozhdenie. So let your heart follow your passion, and then everything in your life will become much better - and health, and finances, and mood.

Know your boundaries

Know what your boundaries are. After all, here you can learn a very cruel lesson. Without knowing your boundaries, you can get very burned. Remember that this side of life can bring not only pleasure, but also disappointment. However, unfortunately, there is no other way to know where your own borders are, other than practice. So do what you like, try something new that attracts you, until you can personally see your boundaries. Note that in this case the border is very clear, so if you stumble upon something gray and not explicitly black and white, you are not sure whether you have reached your limit or not - you are not there yet. Continue the quest to discover the amazing and diverse world of sex.

And remember that sex is multifaceted. Everyone puts his own meaning into this notion, with only his own nuances, based on his own life experience, the level of culture and upbringing. Sex can be both an expression of spiritual intimacy, and a way to relieve the accumulated tension, pastime or a matter of passion. However, even the ancient Chinese said that none of the things that give a person welfare, no match with intimacy. And those who comprehend its meaning, will be able to understand their nature and extend their lives. And whoever misses the true meaning of it will do themselves harm.