How to Attract Love, or Several Secrets of Positive Psychology

"... We choose, we are chosen ..." The familiar words of the familiar song about how sometimes the world is disharmonious, how often in the crowd of people we find ourselves on the "solitude" and how painfully and painfully from loneliness, from the realization that " No one likes me. "

Faced with this situation, it seems that no one has repeatedly asked such a topical question for many: how to draw love into one's life, what needs to be done for the sake of its appearance?

Of course, there can not be an unambiguous answer or a recipe for such a question. But still...

First, you need to try to understand - what's wrong? Or there is no suitable object, who would love and who could be in love with? Or they appear on the path of life, but in transit, after a while moving to another station? Or maybe there is just a field of "dislike" around you, and there is no one around who will radiate "kindness" towards you, friendliness, attention, support? Carefully take a closer look at the people around you, take care of the events happening around them, analyze them pedantically and deeply, listen, so to speak, to the "music of the spheres". And depending on the answer, on what conclusion you came to, you should also dance.

If you realize yourself as a selfish person, with inflated demands for life and for people, if you look down on the world and think that you should, if not all, then so many - you need to start drawing love with hard work on yourself. We will have to prove to ourselves that the "I" is really the last letter in the alphabet, that you are not the center of the Earth and that it is necessary to slow down your demands, to become simpler, kinder, more cordial. And so the question of how to attract love, the answer is this: your soul "must work" day and night. Then your friendliness, sincerity will not go unnoticed, people will be drawn to you. Remember, with what pleasure we substitute the face of a spring sun, not yet sizzling, but kind, affectionate, pleasing especially after a severe long winter! Or how we pull our hands to the living heat of the fire, how we cling to the hot stove with our whole body! Why is this? Because everything warm, kind, lively attracts, fills with tranquility, harmony, joy of being. This applies to people. Light, positive, benevolent attract to themselves, because they radiate the energy of good and love. Next to such good, and they are loved!

But how to attract love, if you are not an egocentric, an ordinary person, just unlucky, how do you think? Then another question - how do you treat yourself? Do you love yourself, respect, realize your uniqueness, originality, significance? If not, here it is, the root of the problem, or the second side of the coin. Selfishness repels. A self-abasement causes pity - and only. It is pity, not love. And in this case, the attraction of others' love should begin with the upbringing of love for oneself, by accepting oneself, forgiving your weaknesses, that you may not be as smart or beautiful as you would like, not so successful in your career, not so Interesting and effective. Let it be so. But you are you, and another such person in nature simply does not exist. Often say it to yourself, smile at yourself in the mirror with the most joyful and happy smile, emphasize your dignity, settle in them! Learn to look positively at yourself. From this, your worldview will change, your views, even externally you will become more attractive, more self-confident. You will get something that used to fall from your hands. You will start to radiate into the world positive energy impulses, you as if scream to the whole world - look at me, I'm good, sweet, wonderful (if you are a man - the same, only in masculine gender). This will not go unnoticed by others! You will start to pay attention, you will be interested. Ignore you can not, but from the heart of sympathy - yes, will be required! Because how to attract love, if not with openness and trust in yourself and people?

And another important point. It should be clear, clearly imagine what it's like to be in the center of attention, to be respected, a loved one for many, very different people, from your family to colleagues or passers-by on the street. You need to draw in the imagination a variety of iridescent pictures and concentrate on those positive emotions that, in doing so, arise in you. And more often cause these emotions in themselves. Thus, we send a call to the Universe - to surround us with love, to send on the roads of destiny those people with whom we will be happy. Believe from the heart that it will happen.

And it will really happen - gradually, as your inner spirit changes, as your new "I" is born, as you get more and more clear about how to attract love.