Can I Calculate Happiness?

"Man is born for happiness, like a bird for flight," how beautiful this phrase sounds. Of course, everyone has his own understanding of happiness: a good prestigious job for one, take-off on the career ladder from another. The third thinks that happiness is in the "thick" purse. But mostly happiness when there is a person with whom it is easy and comfortable, who understands you and accepts, with whom you want to give birth to children and to live your life.

The modern rhythm of life does not allow much time to search for the second half, especially it is typical for residents of large cities and megacities. It's good if the collective is big and different-sex, but what about those who work among the same ones as the loners themselves and the one with you sex? Where to look for that only person with whom it is simple and warm? And how do you not make a mistake?

Today, more and more people turn to dating sites, where they try to see their native eyes among hundreds of people in the photo. The Internet is a huge network and it's very difficult to find relatives among millions of eyes. But who said that this is impossible? The first thing to do is to find a site where people are not going to simply flirt or meet for a few days or weeks, namely those who are "ripe" for a serious relationship. Those who are looking for a person are not for the simple time of forwarding, but for building a family with all the ensuing consequences. Identify such sites by the ads that are posted there. And the presence on the site of the compatibility test. With this test, you can find those with whom you share common interests and views. And then proceed to select a potential life partner.

Of course, in real life, much about a person can be learned from his behavior, manners and conversation. In a virtual world, this is a little more complicated, but it is possible. If a person is really looking for a serious relationship, then his photo will be posted on the site without fail. And it will be clear, and the eyes are not covered with dark glasses. This is the first sign that a person is open for dating, and he has nothing to hide. His announcement contains not only a description of the appearance of the future partner, but also the desired character traits. The questionnaire of such person is filled in detail and completely. Particularly carefully read the answer to the question "why did they part with their former partner". No matter how it was, it is difficult to find a person who has never had a partner in his life, especially in adulthood. If a person completely blames the gap in the opposite direction, then just close his questionnaire. There is no quarrel in the quarrel. Always both are to blame.

After selecting the questionnaires, you have no more than ten (at best) potential partners. And the moment of the beginning of acquaintance comes. In the first message, one should not write much, because the main goal is to draw the person's attention to his profile, to give him the opportunity to compare your desires and interests. If he also found interesting data in his profile, then the correspondence will continue, if not, then you still have the selected questionnaires.

To some extent, dating through the Internet, more calculated than real. This is because in real life per person the fragrance perfume, the timbre of voice, the manner of speech are additionally affected. In an acquaintance through the Internet, such effects are absent, and you value a person more soberly. On the other hand, not everyone can beautifully express in writing their thoughts and desires. But in the process of communication it is possible to understand whether your person is a person or not.

After you have determined that you are interested in this person and have much in common with regard to life, start planning a meeting. Now it will be a meeting of familiar people who are comfortable together now and, probably, will not want to leave later.