A woman earns more than a man: is happiness possible?

We are so eager for equality, that sometimes we forget about possible risks. A successful, beautiful and intelligent woman captures the looks of many men. Its independence and independence causes respect of friends, and achievements in the career - the admiration of colleagues. But are friends, colleagues, or just acquaintances ready to become something big for a woman who earns, perhaps even more than them? It is necessary to admit that men are wary of such relations. Well, when, already in the family, the woman starts bringing more money home, quarrels, grievances, and sometimes divorce begin. Can this be prevented? Is it possible if the beloved earns less.

Let's designate at once - happiness is always possible, if there is love. But the family is work, compromise and delicacy. And if you have a situation that a man earns less, it is worthwhile to show all these qualities. So:

1. Stay feminine. Never shift the habit of a woman to a man. If you are the head of the company, this does not mean that someone else should prepare a family dinner. Remove the strict attire, put on the plush suit of Jusi Couture and treat the family with your specialty. At home, you must be a wife and mother, caring and affectionate. Strictness and willfulness leave for work.

2. Do not try to change roles. If you earn more, this does not mean that you became the earner and head of the family. Leadership is not measured in the amount of money on the salary card. At the moment when you decide that the head of the family you, because you earn well, you lose interest in her husband. In the future, you allow yourself to caustic remarks and neglect that gradually destroy the relationship. And at the moment when a man gets a promotion and again earns more than you, the family will already be destroyed. But everything could be different.

3. Do not compare. How often do women say to their husbands: "Look at Oleg. He has already opened his own business, and you barely live to see your salary. But I could go out for him ... "Just like that or in your hearts after a quarrel - it does not matter when you said it, but such words will always remain in your memory. Do not compare the husband with his fellow students, your boyfriends, and even brothers or friends. He has the only one, the best and will certainly achieve his success.

4. Do not make financial decisions on your own. If he is interested in a sale, clothes for men and women on which is twice cheaper, support him. Husband and wife should look the same. And if the spouse can not buy branded items from the new collection for the time being, then you will also be late.

Treat your husband with respect, do not doubt his abilities. Remember, tomorrow he will bring more money home. And his attitude to you will be based on your words and actions today.