Let's talk with children about the forbidden topic: how do children?

But the truth, why the topic of the appearance of children is often in families forbidden? Perhaps, adults are sometimes led by false shyness, complexities and infantilism? After all, no matter how adults put off this moment, sooner or later the question, like children do, flies into the child's head. Therefore, you should prepare for it in advance.

Of course, you can resort to favorite excuses, such as "find in cabbage", "mold from porridge" or "buy in the store." The most common answer is the phrase that the children are brought by storks. And immediately at the majority of inquisitive curious kids the following question arises: and storks where do they get it?

Today, the Internet uses a huge demand for the cartoon "How the clouds make children." In it, the multipliers go further. They suggest that the cubs of animals and children are molded by clouds - clouds, with the help of lightning - they are enlivened by the electric discharge, and storks are taken away and carried to the addresses. Such a kind fairy tale - and the child gets the answer to such a difficult question!

And what is the baby's response when he inquires, where did the tummy go from Zina's aunt's neighbor, and why immediately after she had a baby? And why she was taken away by the "First Aid", if the children simply make clouds, and then bring the storks? We'll have to lie again ...

Of course, it is difficult to find suitable words to intelligibly explain the baby, as children do, in all details. Although special benefits have already been issued, in which parents are taught how simple and lucidly it is possible to disclose to the child this "terrible" secret. If the child is very small, it is enough just to say that the small one grows in the mummy's mommy. And then his doctors in the hospital get it and give it to happy parents.

But over time, it is imperative for children to ask the following question: how does the child get to the mother in the tummy? Then it will be necessary to explain that both parents take part in the birth of the baby. Many will be surprised, because they can not even imagine what words to tell their son or daughter, what parents do at night!

A parental benefit offers such an explanation. Mom and Dad love each other very much, so they often kiss and hug. After all, you, baby, also often cling to mummy or papule, to your grandfather and grandmother, because you also love them, do not you? But from such embraces the children can not turn out.

A child can appear only in the case when adults not only love each other, but also decide that they need a little baby. Then they begin to cuddle a little differently, just as children do. After that, a woman in the tummy and there is a tiny little man. He gradually grows there, eats what Mummy eats, breathes with her. And then he even starts to move inside her, knocking on legs and pens! Because he is already alive!

Children up to 6 years of this answer to the question of how children are made are usually quite enough. But if the question is asked by a more adult person, who, for example, is already 10 years old, the explanation can be more detailed. He already has to explain that the aunt has a special place inside the baby to carry the baby, and there is a kind of ovum - it's like a yolk in a chicken egg.

And my uncle has a squirrel inside. When the protein gets inside the aunt and merges with the yolk, fertilization takes place, that is, the birth of a new little man. This explanation is mainly necessary for boys, when they are interested in the question of why men of different sexes have different genitals, and what role do men play in procreation.

This explanation is especially important because the boy needs to protect his sexual organs. And it is this explanation of the role of the penis in his future life that can give an incentive to maintain a healthy lifestyle in both young and older age.